YAY, you’re engaged! 🎉 If you’re wondering “I just got engaged, what do I do?”—don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. While it might feel like a whirlwind, taking the first steps after getting engaged in an organized way will make everything smoother (and way less stressful!). I’ve put together the first things to do after getting engaged so you can enjoy this exciting time without feeling overwhelmed. Let’s get started!

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1. CELEBRATE!!!!

The most important first step? Celebrate your big milestone! You’ve just taken an exciting leap in your relationship, so soak it all in and enjoy every second together. Plan a fancy dinner date, throw an engagement party, or call up your crew and share the news—you deserve all the happy dances and champagne toasts! This is your time to shine, so make the most of it because your engagement will fly by in the blink of an eye.

 

2. SET A DATE + BUDGET

Before booking vendors, the first thing to do after getting engaged is to set a date and budget. When I was planning my wedding, I had a few dates in mind and knew that being flexible would help me secure my dream venue and photographer. For your budget, consider who might be helping out. Having these conversations upfront is crucial since costs add up fast. Knowing your financial boundaries will help you prioritize what matters most.

Ask yourself:

• Do I want a short or long engagement?
• How many guests am I envisioning? 75? 150? 300?
• What are my must-haves vs nice-to-haves?
• Am I dreaming of a destination wedding or something closer to home?
• Which seasons do I gravitate towards the most?
• Which venue style am I vibing with the most? Ballroom, Estate, Garden, etc.
• What is my overall max budget? What is my max budget for each vendor?

Answering these questions will help you create a plan that feels authentic to you and your partner. They’ll also guide you in identifying vendors who align with your vision so you can start getting an idea on the next step…

 

3. CREATE A NEW EMAIL

With all the vendor emails, inspiration accounts, wedding websites, and registries coming your way, do yourself a favor—set up a separate wedding email to keep everything organized! This will save you so much time and stress in the long run.

 

 

4. GET INSPIRED

You’ve been dreaming of this day, so make it truly unforgettable! Start by following wedding inspiration accounts to get a feel for the style and vibe that speaks to you. This also challenges you to step out of the box and make your day uniquely yours.

My favorite accounts for wedding inspiration:

• Wedding Sparrow
• Martha Stewart Weddings
• Style Me Pretty
• Magnolia Rouge

5. FIND + BOOK A PLANNER

If you want a stress-free planning experience, hiring a wedding planner is one of the best decisions you can make! They’ll help you find the perfect venue, vendors, and rentals within your budget while making sure your vision comes to life.

A great planner will also bring creativity and organization to the table, making sure your wedding day is smooth, seamless, and everything you imagined!

 

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Yay! I’m so excited for you! I hope these steps help you feel motivated and ready to dive into wedding planning. If you’re looking for a wedding photographer who captures every moment beautifully, reach out to schedule a discovery call—let’s bring your dream wedding to life together! Connect with Hayley Moore Photography

 

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